I asked him: how can someone like my father end up with someone like my mother, and have us (awesome) children.

My father is not a bad person, no. I'd be lying if I said he was a mean and cruel person.

He is just not for my mother.

He told me: Comes to show you how unfair life can be.

I spent the evening with a cousin that I haven't seen in 2 years, I didn't even bring it up, we were just talking about the family and how everyone is doing.
It was funny to hear this out of her: your mother should have married my father, and my mother should have married your father.